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Confession: I Am a Cock Crazy Woman
// photo : Tumblr As part of my willingness to experiment with embracing more of the vulgar side of sex & sexual energy, I’d like to make a bold declaration. This is something I’ve never admitted...
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6 Things I Do in My Long-Term Relationship to Keep the Sex Hot & Fun
// photo : Tumblr Sometimes I have to remind myself that I’ve been with my lover for eight (going on nine!) years now. The chemistry between us is as strong (if not stronger) as it was when we first...
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Why I Touch Myself: An Ode to Masturbation
(me, blissed out after some sexual self-lovin'; via Instagram) I’m trying to think of who I would be as a sexual woman if I didn’t have a sexual relationship with myself, & I can’t place her....
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Your Self-Pleasure Story: “I Am In Love With Pleasuring Me.”
// photo : Tumblr “i enjoy feeling exposed. like a wildflower growing wildly in an open field. naked and vulnerable. this is what coming back to my body looks like. sometimes i use my fingers, more...
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Reader Question: Is My Masturbation Healthy?*
// photo : DPN via Tumblr *Trigger warning: Rape Occasionally, I get a question from a reader that is compelling enough to become its own article. This is one of those questions. Ev’Yan, I have been...
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Your Self-Pleasure Story: “Having The One You Love Watch You Love Yourself. . .”
// art by Erin M. Riley “Me and my partner often masturbate together. I love watching his hand move up and down his erect penis while I writhe with pleasure at the sight. Last week after an amazing...
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5 Ways to Overcome Shame in Masturbation
// photo courtesy of London Zhiloh \\ When I was a teen, I was very active in my church community, & one particular evening, my weekly youth group was set up a little differently. Rather than the...
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Your Self-Pleasure Story: “The Guilt Is Gone. . .”
// photo courtesy of Edie Sunday \\ “I have been touching myself since I can remember. Some of my earliest memories surround touching myself. I can vividly picture one night when I was trying to...
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35 Reasons You Should Add Masturbation to Your Self-Care Routine
// photo by Liaison Erotique; click to buy print \\ We’re coming to the end of May, which signals the end of National Masturbation month. I’ve had such a blast exploring & celebrating masturbation...
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Your Self-Pleasure Story: “Because of Masturbation, I Love My Body. . .”
// photo : Tumblr \\ “I love masturbating. I love solo sex. I love fucking myself. I love being able to come home, lay in my bed, take off my panties, and let my fantasies go wild. Masturbation...
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I Went to Queer Summer Camp & Came Back More Gay
// view from 8,000ft; via Instagram \\ Recently someone asked me, “How can you be a feminist when you’re married to a man?” Now, while this question was jam packed with all kinds of heavy...
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What To Do When You’re Going Through a Dry Spell
// photo by Edie Sunday \\ I’ve been going through a bit of a rough patch lately. Life has been really hard ’round these parts. All areas of my world are being tested: my body and immune system, my...
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The Sexually Liberated Woman: A Conversation With Emily
For the entire month of August, I’m highlighting and celebrating the Sexually Liberated Woman. Not the idea of her, not the vague notion of her, but her true-blue sexual empowerment in the flesh,...
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The Sexually Liberated Woman: Ingrid’s Story
For the entire month of August, I’m highlighting and celebrating the Sexually Liberated Woman. Not the idea of her, not the vague notion of her, but her true-blue sexual empowerment in the flesh,...
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All The Things I’d Tell My Younger Self About Sex
Me, circa early 2000s, in my America’s Next Top Model phase. 1. You are not a slut. You are not a heathen. You are not a juvenile delinquent. All of this has been alluded to you by now, because you...
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4 Ways I Help Myself Feel Safe While Expressing My Sexual Energy (In A World...
from Stop Telling Women To Smile‘s Tumblr; more about the movement here. In my last post, I wrote about men’s entitlement to women’s sexuality; particularly how frustrating it is for me personally...
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What I Listen to When I’m Feeling Like A Sexy Beast
// photo by Kwensi Abbensetts; click to buy the print \\ When I’m feeling sexy, I want to flaunt my curves. I want to adorn myself. I want to take up space. I usually feel my sexiest when I’m...
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The Story I Told Myself About Sex That Almost Ruined It
Photo via Tumblr I used to tell myself a story about sex, one that was used as a litmus test to my own sexual experiences. This story went something like this: Having sex is super easy. First, you get...
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How I Became A Sexual Woman Through Secret Promiscuity
Photo from Tumblr I never got to be a slut when I was young—not by true definite of the word. I had plenty of opportunities, of course, but never did I ascend to that level of promiscuity. I say...
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I Want To Be a Slut: A Declaration of Promiscuity
Follow me on Instagram: @evyan.whitney *This is a continuation of a previous post. When I was 14, I was completely transfixed by the idea and actualization of the slut. I wanted to be promiscuous so...
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